Friday, April 2, 2021

You Don’t Have to Look Like a Goddess to Prevent Him From Cheating

"Oh wow! My babe had her hair and nails done. She does everything for me, so I won't cheat. I'll stay faithful." Do men think this way?

Not! 

Taking pride in your appearance is important, but this does not prevent a dog from being a dog.  So, let's stop blaming the woman when a guy cheats. A guy's infidelity is a reflection of his lack of discipline, self-control, as well as his sense of entitlement. Did you know that some men feel they're entitled to multiple women?

Men will do whatever they want to do. They cheat because they want to! Period.

1.Your beauty, fancy clothes, loyalty, and submission won't prevent him from cheating.

2. Your femininity will not stop a man who is willing to cheat.

3. Cooking, cleaning, or being his slave won't prevent him from cheating.  

4. Not wearing makeup and being religious won't stop him from cheating.

5. Getting pregnant and having children won't prevent cheating.

There's nothing you can do to prevent a man from stepping out. However, you DO have the power to decide whether to leave or stay in the relationship. Step into your power, girl. 

If your boyfriend is cheating, I would suggest that you make a clean break from your relationship. When you're dating, you have the convenience to move forward without the stress factors of being attached to the man through marriage, a baby, or connected to a man financially or emotionally. 

However, when you're married, there are more things at stake. Some of these may include a house, money, car etc. This makes it more difficult for some married women to walk away. They will usually feel stuck.

You will feel pain from the relationship you had with your boyfriend, but life goes on. When you're just dating, you have the freedom to restart your whole life. So, there's no need for you to put up with a cheating boyfriend. It's fun to date and interacting with different people. You don't have to feel stuck with someone who's disrespecting you. If he's lying or cheating, you can make a hasty exit! You have control of your dating life.

This allows you to open up your options, to find out things about the man you're dating. This helps you to identify red flags before you become intimate or too invested in the relationship. 

Dating gives you the convenience to learn as much as you can about his past relationships, do background checks, and avoid men with a history of cheating. You get to narrow down your choices and to decide which man you should continue dating.

Whether dating or married, I would encourage every woman to step away from a cheating or abusive partner. NEVER be a doormat to a man.  He's  not worth the stress and pains. I would offer the advice of loving yourself, healing from your traumas, and living for yourself during and after a relationship.

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