Showing posts with label relationship problems. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship problems. Show all posts

Sunday, October 3, 2021

What Does It Mean When a Man Wants Space?

What Does It Mean When a Man Wants Space? This could be something you fear when you're dating a guy you like or someone you see yourself marrying in the future.

During your relationship, your man might tell you that he wants space. You could be wondering if he feels this way because of something you did or said. You could also feel heartbroken that your relationship is coming to an end. Keep in mind, hearing this news does not always mean that he's breaking up with you.

He could want space because he's feeling conflicted about his emotions and does not know how to communicate with you. He could also need space to recharge the relationship he has with you. 

What is the right way for you to react after hearing this news? Keep reading to learn what you should do when your man tells you he wants space.

Don't Argue With Him

It can be hurtful and painful when your man wants space. Your pain might even turn to anger if you feel your man is trying to break up with you. Try not to freak out or start an argument with him. He could be feeling overwhelmed or scared to express his real feelings. Arguing or pleading with him might not be enough for him to change his mind.

Give Him Space

The only way for you to deal with this situation is to give him his space. Respecting his wishes by staying away could be the best solution for you to save your relationship.This is also a way for you to not seem too clingy or desperate. If he feels that creating distance between the two of you is the right thing then you should agree to this request. Remember, it is normal for people to want to be on their own for a while. So, try not to feel insulted. Later on, he might be willing to explain his feelings to you and let you know if he's ready to continue with your relationship. 

Focus On Yourself

Don't be too stressed when you're away from your man. You should avoid thinking that you can't be happy when you're not with your man. 

The truth is, you can continue to have good relationships with other people you have in your life. Make a list of the fun things that you can do with other people. Whether you're away from your boyfriend for a week, two weeks, or longer, you'll have the chance to participate in fun activities that you enjoy.  During your free time, you can spend quality time with your friends at the movies, gym, mall, and other fun places that you like to visit.

Traveling is also another fun activity that you can do with your friends. Fun activities pass the time and help you to keep your mind off the problems you're having with your man. Having a social life with people you love is good for your mental health. It can also help to increase your happiness and quality of life. 

Be Optimistic

Stop  thinking that your man wants to break up with you. Instead, you should try to be optimistic and focus on the good times you had with your man. Don't think that separation from him is the end of the world. This could be a minor phase.

Key Takeaway

Your man wanting space can be a difficult situation. Knowing that the man you care about with all your heart and soul wants to be away from you can even affect your self-esteem. 

Distance could be the most effective solution for you both to  fix the cracks in your relationship. After a certain time when you're apart, you might have the chance to rekindle the romance that you have with your boyfriend.

Sunday, April 4, 2021

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater: 4 Reasons Why Men Cheat

Try not to blame yourself when your partner cheats. No matter what you do or how you look, you won't be able to stop him from cheating or staring at other women when you go out. 

Statistically, more men are known for having the propensity to cheat. It is known that 20 to 80 percent of men will have the incline to cheat. Why do they engage in this behavior? Here are 4 common reasons why men cheat.

1. They're Not Mature

Serial cheaters have the reputation for being emotionally immature and they could also be self-centered. They might also have a lack of self-control and unable to discuss their feelings with their partners. These are critical factors that will prevent them from remaining faithful in a relationship or marriage.

2.  Depression and Anxiety

Men struggling with depression and anxiety have the propensity to cheat on their partners. Cheating is a way for them to get relief from the mental issues they're dealing with.

3. They're No Longer in Love With You

 If a man is no longer in love with you, he will feel the need to cheat. He could also feel unfulfilled with the relationship he has with you. Your man could be in a situation where he feels stuck with you and unable to end the relationship. 

4. They Love the Excitement and Chase

Men in general love to experience the excitement of chasing women. If they see a woman they like, they will normally want to explore that feeling. They might also love the challenge of getting women to like them.

Is Your Man Faithful?

As you can see, men cheat for many reasons. So, even if you think you're in a great relationship, you may have to deal with this problem and determine the right steps you should take.

Some men are not wired to be monogamous. They will drain the life and self-esteem out of you if you allow it. Never force yourself to remain in an unhealthy relationship. Protect your energy and mentality by trying to connect with someone who knows how to treat you with respect.

Friday, April 2, 2021

You Don’t Have to Look Like a Goddess to Prevent Him From Cheating

"Oh wow! My babe had her hair and nails done. She does everything for me, so I won't cheat. I'll stay faithful." Do men think this way?


Taking pride in your appearance is important, but this does not prevent a dog from being a dog.  So, let's stop blaming the woman when a guy cheats. A guy's infidelity is a reflection of his lack of discipline, self-control, as well as his sense of entitlement. Did you know that some men feel they're entitled to multiple women?

Men will do whatever they want to do. They cheat because they want to! Period.

1.Your beauty, fancy clothes, loyalty, and submission won't prevent him from cheating.

2. Your femininity will not stop a man who is willing to cheat.

3. Cooking, cleaning etc. won't prevent him from cheating.  

4. Not wearing makeup and being religious won't stop him from cheating.

There's nothing you can do to prevent a man from stepping out. However, you DO have the power to decide whether to leave or stay in the relationship. Step into your power, girl. 

When your boyfriend cheats, you can make a clean break from your relationship.

When you're just dating you have the freedom to restart your whole life. So, there's no need for you to put up with a cheating or abusive boyfriend. It's fun to date and interact with different people. You don't have to feel stuck with someone who's disrespecting you. You can make a hasty exit! You have control of your dating life.

Dating allows you to open up your options, to find out things about the men you're dating. This helps you to identify red flags before you become intimate or too invested in the relationship. 

Dating gives you the convenience to learn as much as you can about past relationships. You get to narrow down your choices and decide which man you should continue dating.

NEVER be a doormat to a man. He's not worth the stress and pains.

Wednesday, March 24, 2021

Dale and Clare are Back Together!

Remember Clare Crawley from The Bachelorette? Well, allegedly, Clare Crawley and Dale Moss are back together. Wow, I certainly didn't see this coming. I thought this couple had broken up for good.

Sources claim that Dale and Clare are once again engaged after Clare's birthday weekend celebration. So, this is good news for all you Clare Crawley fans. I admire them for giving their relationsip a second shot. I wish them the best.

Click here to watch this video about Clare and Dale getting back together.

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